In a perfect world we would all realise when someone likes us, but in reality it isn’t normally that simple. Some people struggle to express their emotions, so they can have feelings for you without giving it away, while other people may seem like they like you when in reality they are not interested at all.
This can be pretty frustrating. No-one wants to waste their time liking someone who will never like them back, but sometimes it can be difficult to be aware of the signs that show that they are not interested.
If you want to know if your date likes you or not, here are a few signs that show he isn’t interested. It may be hard to accept now, but it is much better than wasting your time.
1. You Always Start The Conversation
You are constantly thinking of reasons to send him a message, but he never actually starts a conversation himself. This indicates that he isn’t interested as people like to reach out to the people that they are attracted to, whether that is sending them a message or tagging them in a funny picture.
If your date never starts the conversation he probably doesn’t mind if he talks to you or not, so you should walk away and find someone who actually wants to talk to you.
2. He Is Always Too Busy
Everyone is busy sometimes, but if your crush is constantly too busy to talk to you it probably means that you are not a priority. If they like you it is likely that they will make an effort to rearrange their busy schedule to fit you in, but if they are not willing to do that it means that they prioritize everything else over their relationship with you.
3. He Doesn’t Care About Your Life
He never asks about your day or your life unless you ask him about his, and he doesn’t seem to want to find out more about your life. If you tell him a funny work story he will smile, but he will never bring the story up again or ask for new updates or developments.
If you can relate to this it is likely that your crush isn’t interested in you in a romantic way. They may want to be your friend, but it is unlikely that they want the relationship to grow into something more.
4. He Doesn’t Remember The Details
You often talk to your crush about your life, but he rarely remembers the details. He probably can’t name more than two of your friends, and he knows your job title but he wouldn’t be able to explain what you actually do on a day by day basis.
Remember that if a guy likes you he will listen to your every word, but if he doesn’t remember the details it is likely that he sees you as a friend or an acquaintance.
