Do You Fall Too Quickly?

Do You Fall Too Quickly?

You start messaging someone new, and after a day of messaging you realise that you have quite a lot in common. The next day you speak on the phone, and afterwards you are so excited. You can’t stop thinking about a possible relationship, and you are thinking about them every five minutes.

Does this sound familiar to you? If so, you could be the kind of person who falls for other people too quickly. This isn’t a terrible trait to have, but it can leave you feeling let down and heartbroken on a regular basis – especially if you are actively dating and trying to meet someone.

Here are 6 signs that show you fall too quickly for other people.

 

1. You’re A Romantic By Nature

People who are hopeless romantics tend to spend a lot of time fantasising about love and the intense emotions that come with it, and this can make it much easier for them to think that a small flirtation is much more serious than it actually is.

 

2. Your Friends Think That You Are Basically In A Relationship

You’re talking to someone and there is definitely dating potential, but your friends already think that you are in a relationship because you constantly talk about the person you are nearly-dating. Your friends make jokes about how you are coupled up, and they know details about his job and his life – but your date’s friends don’t even know that you exist yet.

 

3. You Are All Or Nothing

When you start to develop feelings for someone it is all or nothing. There is no middle ground, no hesitance – immediately you have a full blown crush and you are thinking about them on a daily (or even hourly) basis.

 

4. You Stop Crushing On Other People

Your crushes are so intense that you rarely crush on more than one person, even if you are not dating the person that you are crushing on. This can be problematic as you are ruling out prospective dates for someone who may not even reciprocate your feelings.

 

5. Your Day Revolves Around Your Crush

In the morning the first thing you do is check your phone or laptop to see if your crush has messaged. At work you keep getting distracted because you are thinking about your crush. When you go out with your friends in the evening you are constantly checking your phone to see if your crush has texted, and as soon as you get home you stalk their social media to see if there are any new snippets about their life.

 

6. You Tend To Miss The Signs

People who fall quickly tend to be more likely to miss signs that the other person isn’t as interested, especially if the other person does occasionally flirt with them. This can mean that you think that a relationship is on the cards, even though it is fairly obvious to everyone else that your crush is just a natural flirt who doesn’t want anything serious.

Can you relate to these points? Do you have any advice for people who fall too quickly? Let us know with a comment!

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Amy Johnson
Written by Amy Johnson