Small talk isn’t for everyone. Sure, it may be an unavoidable part of life, but when it comes to actually getting to know someone, most people would much rather have a deep, interesting conversation. They would prefer to talk about intense, personal subjects, so they can understand the other person and build a connection with them.

Do you want to ensure that you have a great date? If so, here are 30 questions you can ask your crush to get to know them better.

 

How do you spend your weekends?

What film did you watch last?

Are you an extrovert or an introvert?

What was the best holiday of your life?

Where is your dream holiday destination?

What is your favourite meal of the day; breakfast, lunch or tea?

Do you like podcasts?

What is your favourite song?

What is your favourite type of music?

Who was the first artist you saw live?

Do you play an instrument?

What is your favourite season?

Do you have any secret talents?

Are you a night person or a morning person?

If you could travel through time, where would you go first?

What do you think about social media?

Did you like school?

What subject did you like the most?

Do you have a pet?

What’s something you really liked as a child, but hate now?

What is something you really disliked as a child, but love now?

Do you still speak to your friends from school?

Where you stylish when you were younger?

Did you do anything stupid as a child?

What did you did for your first job?

Do you see your family often?

What’s the best advice anyone has ever given you?

Are you religious?

What do you want to achieve in life?

Do you have a best friend?